Hey there, ladies! I'm really growing to love Thursdays. It gives me such a thrill when people play along with the questions that Andrea and I post each week. {Have any good topic ideas? Let us know!}
This week's topic:
Things you like best/worst about being your age.
I know, I know. This week's topic isn't quite as light and airy as last week. Sometimes, you learn more by asking a quasi serious question! So keep an open mind, please. :-)
To make things fair - I'll break from the three format and give you four. Two things I like best and two things I like the least. And yes...I cheated on the "best" list!
Best:
Confidence and perspective. I'm still a pretty shy person. But with age has come the confidence that I really am as smart, funny, and lovable as some fabulous people have told me. Honesty, I'm a heck of a lot smarter than some people have given me credit for. Just because they have advanced degrees does NOT make certain people smarter than me. Education does NOT equal intelligence.
Freedom. I'm sure that all adults appreciate the ability to make their own decisions and only need to justify their purchases, TV shows, cooking taste, etc. to only themselves or their partner. :-) How many of you said during your teenage years "Just wait until I'm an adult, mom and dad!"?
Bonus: Being my age puts me in the position that I can cook some great meals, know how to check my car oil, speak intelligently about politics {amongst other things}, and best of all be able to be active in dog rescue.
Bonus again: I look young enough that I get carded {most of the time} and don't get called "ma'am"; look old enough that I get taken seriously.
Worst:
Being alone. I'm thrilled that all my friends and family have found their mates! Getting to see the family {either blood or chosen family} grow is wonderful. It's equally joyous getting to help welcome the kids into the world. I love almost all of the kiddies in my life! Seriously!!!! But, I'm still single and don't have kids. And sometimes the mommies and kiddies get together and I get forgotten. Or I get invited but feel a little awkward because I can't contribute to the "aren't the toddler years the worst" convo or the "wow, you have 11 month old twins and are pregnant with another set of twins stuff". I absolutely know that people accept me for who I am...but I've always wanted to be a mom. I really feel like I'm missing out on a big chunk of life... *Note: I'm kind of sensitive about letting people know that I feel sad about the lack of a husband and kids in my life. Please be nice.*
Bills. Really, why are there so many freaking bills? As you go from your twenties into your thirties, the bills seem to multiply! Mortgage, property tax, home insurance, car insurance, cable, electricity, etc. Dear companies, please do us all a favor and don't increase your rates this year! Ha!
You're turn! While you're at it, drop by and show the love to my fabulous co-host, Andrea!
This week's topic:
Things you like best/worst about being your age.
I know, I know. This week's topic isn't quite as light and airy as last week. Sometimes, you learn more by asking a quasi serious question! So keep an open mind, please. :-)
To make things fair - I'll break from the three format and give you four. Two things I like best and two things I like the least. And yes...I cheated on the "best" list!
Best:
Confidence and perspective. I'm still a pretty shy person. But with age has come the confidence that I really am as smart, funny, and lovable as some fabulous people have told me. Honesty, I'm a heck of a lot smarter than some people have given me credit for. Just because they have advanced degrees does NOT make certain people smarter than me. Education does NOT equal intelligence.
Freedom. I'm sure that all adults appreciate the ability to make their own decisions and only need to justify their purchases, TV shows, cooking taste, etc. to only themselves or their partner. :-) How many of you said during your teenage years "Just wait until I'm an adult, mom and dad!"?
Bonus: Being my age puts me in the position that I can cook some great meals, know how to check my car oil, speak intelligently about politics {amongst other things}, and best of all be able to be active in dog rescue.
Bonus again: I look young enough that I get carded {most of the time} and don't get called "ma'am"; look old enough that I get taken seriously.
Worst:
Being alone. I'm thrilled that all my friends and family have found their mates! Getting to see the family {either blood or chosen family} grow is wonderful. It's equally joyous getting to help welcome the kids into the world. I love almost all of the kiddies in my life! Seriously!!!! But, I'm still single and don't have kids. And sometimes the mommies and kiddies get together and I get forgotten. Or I get invited but feel a little awkward because I can't contribute to the "aren't the toddler years the worst" convo or the "wow, you have 11 month old twins and are pregnant with another set of twins stuff". I absolutely know that people accept me for who I am...but I've always wanted to be a mom. I really feel like I'm missing out on a big chunk of life... *Note: I'm kind of sensitive about letting people know that I feel sad about the lack of a husband and kids in my life. Please be nice.*
Bills. Really, why are there so many freaking bills? As you go from your twenties into your thirties, the bills seem to multiply! Mortgage, property tax, home insurance, car insurance, cable, electricity, etc. Dear companies, please do us all a favor and don't increase your rates this year! Ha!
You're turn! While you're at it, drop by and show the love to my fabulous co-host, Andrea!
This week's topic:
Things you like best/worst about being your age.
I know, I know. This week's topic isn't quite as light and airy as last week. Sometimes, you learn more by asking a quasi serious question! So keep an open mind, please. :-)
To make things fair - I'll break from the three format and give you four. Two things I like best and two things I like the least. And yes...I cheated on the "best" list!
Best:
Confidence and perspective. I'm still a pretty shy person. But with age has come the confidence that I really am as smart, funny, and lovable as some fabulous people have told me. Honesty, I'm a heck of a lot smarter than some people have given me credit for. Just because they have advanced degrees does NOT make certain people smarter than me. Education does NOT equal intelligence.
Freedom. I'm sure that all adults appreciate the ability to make their own decisions and only need to justify their purchases, TV shows, cooking taste, etc. to only themselves or their partner. :-) How many of you said during your teenage years "Just wait until I'm an adult, mom and dad!"?
Bonus: Being my age puts me in the position that I can cook some great meals, know how to check my car oil, speak intelligently about politics {amongst other things}, and best of all be able to be active in dog rescue.
Bonus again: I look young enough that I get carded {most of the time} and don't get called "ma'am"; look old enough that I get taken seriously.
Worst:
Being alone. I'm thrilled that all my friends and family have found their mates! Getting to see the family {either blood or chosen family} grow is wonderful. It's equally joyous getting to help welcome the kids into the world. I love almost all of the kiddies in my life! Seriously!!!! But, I'm still single and don't have kids. And sometimes the mommies and kiddies get together and I get forgotten. Or I get invited but feel a little awkward because I can't contribute to the "aren't the toddler years the worst" convo or the "wow, you have 11 month old twins and are pregnant with another set of twins stuff". I absolutely know that people accept me for who I am...but I've always wanted to be a mom. I really feel like I'm missing out on a big chunk of life... *Note: I'm kind of sensitive about letting people know that I feel sad about the lack of a husband and kids in my life. Please be nice.*
Bills. Really, why are there so many freaking bills? As you go from your twenties into your thirties, the bills seem to multiply! Mortgage, property tax, home insurance, car insurance, cable, electricity, etc. Dear companies, please do us all a favor and don't increase your rates this year! Ha!
You're turn! While you're at it, drop by and show the love to my fabulous co-host, Andrea!
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